You can call me Shaz, that's what my friends would call me and I have no enemies :)
Well, this is my very first blog. I have thought a zillion times to write down something and I even thought of some good topix too.. Finally, I am writing on a topic, which has always been very close to me.
First thing for sure is, I am no philosophical. Neither I am 50 yrs old who has a great experience in life. Till this point in my life I have gained sufficient experience, which can help me write this out... so lets see, how this comes out...
Friend or Love...? Whats the thin line difference in between two? Or are they same? How about a combination of both?
While I ask these questions to myself, there are so many thoughts flowing through my mind. I can answer them all. But let me bring out whats in my mind.
I'll start with Love.. most of the times, it starts with an infatuation. Infatuations usually don't last much longer. Sooner or later, both the parters realize that there is no use stretching the relationship. Wildly it starts, drastically it ends.
Another kind of starting is, forced love... Pair is made up by well wishers. With no other choice rather than to understand the person in front of you, you have to love him/her. You have to realize that this is the only person whom you will be with throughout your life. Why is so? Why can't a person have a choice of his/her own?
Yet another kind is... Love by choice.. This usually happens when we see someone in misery. And wish to help that person come out of misery.
Family love.. These is again a kind of forced love. You have been allocated to a couple since the first second of your birth..your parents. You meet your brothers and sisters whom again you are supposed to like/love. More than love, its responsibility which you have to complete with full dedication.
Might not be last...but to me..this has a special place... Friend and Love...
Here, I'll introduce you to my definition of a friend. Its not different from what world believes.
Someone who is with you always.. be it your happier times or be it your tough time... He/she is your friend. Some people might say that a true friend will be someone who will let his friend explore his own way and let him fight through toughest situation. Well, this is what a person who doesn't know you will do. According to me, a friend is someone who helps you winning the tough times and shares all your happiness. He/she is someone, whom you can believe with full heart. There is nothing wrong in being dependent on your friend and even if that is to be done for the whole life, do it.
Take an example of a dog. It will always be with you no matter how is the situation. It will be happy when you are happy. It will acknowledge this by wagging its tail. If you are into trouble, it will do its best to pull you out. It will not just leave you to handle the situation yourself. Well, that's the best example I can give.
Coming back to where I left 2 paragraphs above.. Friend and Love.. WOW, what a combination it would be. Friend gives you a presence..throughout your life and Love gives you caring, passion, happiness, sadness, possessiveness, respect and altogether a separate place in life.
I can be a friend to a person and if I find out that I have a passion, possessiveness, care and respect for my friend..this is nothing but love.
Why am I stressing so much on possessiveness? Well, I'll say, its a very important part of the relationship. It should be there between two lovers. Possessiveness brings a lot of understanding in between the two.
Friend and love will not only give presence but will also help in coming out of the hardships. He/she will be there forever to share your happiness.
Life will not be easy, unless your love is your best pal. I can make so many friends, but I can give this special place to someone really special in my life. I believe in this special person. I will always do. I can trust him/her blindly, even he/she does a mistake to show me a way to death, I will accept that.
Do I really expect a presence of the best pal in my life? Yes, I do expect.
Do I really need love from this best pal of mine? Yes, I do.
Do I need that special place? Yes, I do.
Do I want to be with this friend and love throughout my life...yes, I do want this.
Did I really became senti while writing this all? Dont know.
As I said, this is just my first blog.. I had all in my mind written here.
While writing I use a lot of '...'... Well, they mean a lot to me. And '...' will always be very special to me.
I am blind...
:-)
Bis Spater
